Thursday 12 July 2012

L.I.F.E


A NYC Taxi driver wrote:

I arrived at the address and honked the horn. After waiting a few minutes I honked again. Since this was going to be my last ride of my shift I thought about just driving away, but instead I put the car in park and walked up to the door and knocked.. 'Just a minute', answered a frail, elderly voice. I could hear something being dragged across the floor.

After a long pause, the door opened. A small woman in her 90's stood before me. She was wearing a print dress and a pillbox hat with a veil pinned on it, like somebody out of a 1940's movie.

By her side was a small nylon suitcase. The apartment looked as if no one had lived in it for years. All the furniture was covered with sheets.

There were no clocks on the walls, no knickknacks or utensils on the counters. In the corner was a cardboard
box filled with photos and glassware.

'Would you carry my bag out to the car?' she said. I took the suitcase to the cab, then returned to assist the woman.

She took my arm and we walked slowly toward the curb.

She kept thanking me for my kindness. 'It's nothing', I told her.. 'I just try to treat my passengers the way I would want my mother to be treated.'

'Oh, you're such a good boy, she said. When we got in the cab, she gave me an address and then asked, 'Could you drive
through downtown?'

'It's not the shortest way,' I answered quickly..

'Oh, I don't mind,' she said. 'I'm in no hurry. I'm on my way to a hospice.

I looked in the rear-view mirror. Her eyes were glistening. 'I don't have any family left,' she continued in a soft voice..'The doctor says I don't have very long.' I quietly reached over and shut off the meter.

'What route would you like me to take?' I asked.

For the next two hours, we drove through the city. She showed me the building where she had once worked as an elevator operator.

We drove through the neighborhood where she and her husband had lived when they were newlyweds She had me pull up in front of a furniture warehouse that had once been a ballroom where she had gone dancing as a girl.

Sometimes she'd ask me to slow in front of a particular building or corner and would sit staring into the darkness, saying nothing.

As the first hint of sun was creasing the horizon, she suddenly said, 'I'm tired.Let's go now'.
We drove in silence to the address she had given me. It was a low building, like a small convalescent home, with a driveway that passed under a portico.

Two orderlies came out to the cab as soon as we pulled up. They were solicitous and intent, watching her every move.
They must have been expecting her.

I opened the trunk and took the small suitcase to the door. The woman was already seated in a wheelchair.

'How much do I owe you?' She asked, reaching into her purse.

'Nothing,' I said

'You have to make a living,' she answered.

'There are other passengers,' I responded.

Almost without thinking, I bent and gave her a hug.She held onto me tightly.

'You gave an old woman a little moment of joy,' she said. 'Thank you.'

I squeezed her hand, and then walked into the dim morning light.. Behind me, a door shut.It was the sound of the closing of a life..

I didn't pick up any more passengers that shift. I drove aimlessly lost in thought. For the rest of that day,I could hardly talk.What if that woman had gotten an angry driver,or one who was impatient to end his shift? What if I had refused to take the run, or had honked once, then driven away?

On a quick review, I don't think that I have done anything more important in my life.

We're conditioned to think that our lives revolve around great moments.

But great moments often catch us unaware-beautifully wrapped in what others may consider a small one.


Sunday 10 June 2012

YOU SHOW ME YOURS, I SHOW YOU MINE!


Opposition Leader Anwar Ibrahim today said he was prepared to bare all his bank accounts following allegations that he has RM3 billion worth of assets and cash. - http://www.malaysiakini.com/news/200406


NOW!!! That we don't see very often. Two politicians getting frisky with each other.
LMHOROTF!!!



Thursday 31 May 2012

Malaysia, A Free Country? Kiss My Ass!

The Evidence (Amendment) (No.2) Act 2012 - is this the government's plan to make us shut the fuck up?

Traditionally a person is presumed innocent until proven guilty but the Evidence Act 2012 reverses this. In other words, you are responsible for anything posted on your website and the burden is on you to prove your innocence, not on the prosecution to prove your guilt.

According to Nazri, the law was tightened because “we don’t want people to slander or threaten others,”. What the fuck? What did the government do when the opposition leader's and supporters had to face problems associated with illegal protestors, hidden cameras, abduction, false accusations, etc? Busy sucking your thumbs eh?

And looking at everything that is taking place around us, you people think this new act is gonna be used for the benefit of the Malaysian people? Come on, everybody knows, it's the government's way of squeezing our balls.

Free country? Democratic nation? Human rights prevail? Kiss my ass!

http://malaysia-today.net/mtcolumns/from-around-the-blogs/49617-black-day-for-internet-users
http://www.federalgazette.agc.gov.my/outputaktap/20120209_A1424_BI_JW001763%20Act%20A1424-BI.pdf

Wednesday 23 May 2012

Women vs Men

Anyone who rejects that women are smarter than men need only look at the recent statistics for students enrolled in the graduate schools of business, law, medicine, and dentistry. Women now outnumber men in those graduate schools and will soon hold the majority in those lofty careers. Does this make women smarter? I don’t see how anyone can deny this. They came from way behind fifty years ago, and are currently leaving men in their dust, proving that all they ever needed was an equal opportunity.

Women endure physical pain in a manner men could never consider. Think childbirth. And single mothers are raising half of the children in America by themselves, while holding down full-time careers. Are women tougher than men? Clearly they are. There are few jobs any longer that require brute strength alone, and even physically challenging careers in firefighting and police work are being handled capably by women.

But women’s greatest power is in their enormous emotional strength that they call upon when necessary. They can capably provide the love and emotional care their children need, and support their husbands’ needs simultaneously. They aren’t afraid of their emotions, and, unlike men, don’t hide from them out of fear or ignorance. They know how to deal with their feelings as they arise. Men who think women are weak because they cry more easily than they do are delusional. Women cry to release their pent-up emotions, instead of holding them in and blowing up. Men have yet to learn this simple lesson.

What does all of this mean to men? It means that its way past late for men to respond to the deafening wake-up call and become fully embodied men. That means becoming men who are confident in their manhood and can express, feel, and control their emotions. It means men who don’t feel threatened by women, and mistreat them because of their own inadequacies. It means that men are now the ones behind the eight-ball, and sadly, many still haven’t figured that out. Men are being left behind in so many arenas that they are becoming angry instead of resourceful, which makes no sense whatsoever.

Men used to wield all of the power in relationships and were responsible for the day-to-day, general well-being of the women they were in relationships with. That was a burden that men didn’t handle very well, and that women decided to assume. Women have beaten a path towards success and independence that is faster than any social change I can recall. They accomplished all of this with a minimal amount of fuss and noise.

How could women have achieved this if they weren’t smarter, tougher, and more emotionally centered, and what are the lessons men can learn from women? Men who fail to answer the wake-up will be left holding the bag of discontent and loneliness. Women are clever enough to realize that waiting for men to come around is going to take too long. Many now view men in the same way men used to see them, as necessary sexual partners with little else to offer.

Men should feel threatened, at least enough to change their dysfunctional behavior. Fathers who don’t spend time with their children damage them because they deny their children the most important aspect of fatherhood, emotional support. Fathers who cheat their children by withholding child-support because they don’t like the notion of supporting their ex-wives too, have to be plenty stupid, or in serious denial, to believe that baloney. Men can’t choose whether or not to be fathers. If you have a child, you’re a father, end of story. 


 While women have been working hard together in small groups to find their places in the world, men have been sitting on the sidelines, wearing their crown. Now they are watching helplessly as they’re being left in the dust. Men should be angry, but not with their female bosses who kick their asses or their female co-workers who complete more projects or their wives who earn more then them. Men should be angry at their own emotional laziness. Men who continue on the same path will wake up one day to find that not only are women in charge, but that their services are no longer  required (remember, we have modern tools to replace the need for men!).

Monday 21 May 2012

Check List for Malaysian Politicians.

The Malaysian 13th General Election is just around the corner and the next Parliament session starts in June. There are numerous issues that I'd like to see raised in Parliament and to get answers from. So, dear politicians if you  want my vote, you better take note of these:

--> I want better education system. I want the grading/marking system to be reliable. I want the crappy syllabus to be checked. I want all students with good SPM results to be offered a place in local U- free. Do away with STPM. I want better quality teachers, not SPM second graders.
--> I want better health facility. I want better service by medical officers, I want clean and hygienic hospital. I want good medicines in government clinic/hospitals. I want it to be made compulsory for all cabinet ministers only to attend government clinic/hospitals.
--> I want all city councils do their goddamn job. I want every road, every sungai, every longkang and every waste disposal area to be clean and hygienic. I want representatives of each area to be responsible for its cleanliness.
--> I want foreign workers intake to be controlled. I want more job opportunities for Malaysians with better pay, not a lousy RM800 per month.
--> I want all government tenders to be made open tenders with no special favours for those with bumiputera status or their relationship with politicians. I want all new government projects to be made known to public and public opinion taken into serious consideration before implementing it.
--> I want the people of Malaysia be given the right to assemble wherever they want to, whenever they want to.
--> I want the people of Malaysia be given the right to practice a religion of their choice and that includes a right to change their faith and beliefs as they wish.
--> I want our justice system to stop kissing the government's ass. I want the government to stop squeezing the judge's balls.
--> I want the police to do their goddamn job -serve and protect the people. I want the police to stop being the government's watchdog.
--> I want any politicians and government servants who are facing corruption charges to be suspended until the investigation is over.
--> I want all politicians to publicly declare their asset.
--> I want the Prime Minister to go to France and face the charges imposed on him by the French prosecutors. Prove yourself innocent if you are.
--> I want all media to be free of any political influence.

...now that's not too much to ask for, was it?


Saturday 21 April 2012

Take My Hand

Take my hand dear friend. Allow us to walk together and share our inner most secrets. Let us be there for each other in times of joy and times of despair. Let us walk together and share what life has to offer. Let us criticize each other constructively to better ourselves, yet without malice. Times of indifference are sure to challenge the friendship we share. There are those who will try and compromise us.

Let us never forget what brought us together. Remember what we have in common. Let us never forget to laugh at life and all it holds. Do not lose sight of the compassion we need. Our strengths, our weaknesses, our likes and dislikes all make us who we are. It is whom we are that makes our friendship special. I do not have to live your life. I do not expect you to live mine. What works for me may not work for you. That does not mean we can't be friends. Your color matters not with me. Your shape holds no bearing on what we share. Your age is an asset to what we share. You may be older. You may be younger. We can still learn from each other. Share a smile, a laugh, a gesture, a joke, a tear, a kiss or a hug. It's all the same. We are stronger for having each other. Put no commitments on me and I’ll not put any on you. We remain free to be who we are. Your successes are my successes. Your failures I share too. I smile when you feel good. I share your pain when you hurt physically or emotionally. You will never have to walk alone. Take my hand and walk with me. I am your friend. There are no conditions on my friendship. Do not cast conditions on me. Take my hand. You can be my friend. I'll hold you dear and respect your views. That's what friends do.

Take my hand dear friend. Allow us to walk together and share our inner most secrets. Let us be there for each other in times of joy and times of despair. Let us walk together and share what life has to offer. Let us criticize each other constructively to better ourselves, yet without malice. Times of indifference are sure to challenge the friendship we share.

There are those who will try and compromise us. Let us never forget what brought us together. Remember what we have in common. Let us never forget to laugh at life and all it holds. Do not lose sight of the compassion we need. Our strengths, our weaknesses, our likes and dislikes all make us who we are. It is whom we are that makes our friendship special. I do not have to live your life. I do not expect you to live mine. What works for me may not work for you. That does not mean we can't be friends. Your color matters not with me. Your shape holds no bearing on what we share. Your age is an asset to what we share. You may be older. You may be younger. We can still learn from each other. Share a smile, a laugh, a gesture, a joke, a tear, a kiss or a hugg. It's all the same. We are stronger for having each other. Put no commitments on me and I’ll not put any on you. We remain free to be who we are. Your successes are my successes. Your failures I share too. I smile when you feel good. I share your pain when you hurt physically or emotionally. You will never have to walk alone. Take my hand and walk with me. I am your friend.

There are no conditions on my friendship. Do not cast conditions on me. Take my hand. You can be my friend. I'll hold you dear and respect your views. That's what friends do.

Saturday 31 March 2012

Moideen is in LaLa Land

http://www.themalaysianinsider.com/malaysia/article/muhyiddin-our-schools-are-better-than-the-us-britain-and-germany/

Moideen: Our sekolah is better than US, Britain & Germany.

Huh? Helloo...We can't even get our history facts right and we've been teaching our kids bunch of lies in the name of history and we've got a better education system? Foreign education system challenges the students to think and enhance their problem solving skill, while we merely spoon feed our kids from Standard One all the way to Form Five, and you say we've got a better education system then them? Our English language standard as taught in schools is not acceptable by schools in foreign countries that our students have to equip themselves with internationally recognized English certification such as 1119 English, TOEFL, etc and you dare say we teach better than them?
I think our Edu Minister is still in LaLa Land. Someone please pass me a pillow to smack his head!